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Furry Friends in the Holiday Mix

Amid the whirlwind of parties, travel, and traditions, it’s easy to overlook those who give us unconditional, year-round love.

Our animal roommates aren’t just cute (and often maniacal) additions to our homes. They aren’t pieces of furniture to be acquired, admired, and then eventually forgotten. They are as essential as electricity and should be valued and appreciated at that level.

This time of year can be chaotic. Loud gatherings, lights, music, and unfamiliar faces can overwhelm animals who thrive on dependable routines, and signs of stress like whining, panting, pacing, or hiding are common during the high-pressure holidays. Even small changes, like rearranging furniture or bringing in a tree (that certainly should have been left planted in nature), can trigger anxiety in these sensitive souls.

Animals crave consistency, so missed walks and irregular feeding times can lead to discomfort, behavioral issues, and even illness. Imagine how disorienting it must feel when your safe space suddenly becomes a bustling hub of strangers and noise during a human soiree that never got your stamp of approval.

Beyond a sense of mutual physical safety, consider the emotional bond we share with our tail-wagging sidekicks. As society becomes more fragmented—with declining fertility rates and shrinking family networks—animals increasingly fill the void of companionship. For those of us who have chosen to detach and withdraw from the population as a whole, the dependency on our four-legged friends is as vital as oxygen.

In moments heavy with memories that can amplify feelings of tension, discouragement, and isolation for many, our animal companions are anchors of tranquility and constant reminders of connection.

When the decorations come down and the guests go home, who will still be there, tail wagging? The furry friend who asks for nothing but gives you everything.

They deliver exponential joy, unwavering loyalty, and a true sense of purpose. This season, let’s return the favor.

Adolescence Interrupted

My World Never Feels Safe…And Now I’m Right

The roads are all lined with eggshells. Tiptoes and feather steps, thinking back to a time when sidewalk cracks were the only items on a list of things to avoid.

Leaving a house full of physical walls to venture outside into a world of imaginary ones is a nasty little mind trick to navigate.

For many years I have maintained some semblance of sanity by following a specific series of patterns, habits, and concocted restrictive rules to live among the “normals,” and do my best to blend. Now, everyone else has systems, and there’s just too much competing static to cut clean s-curves without a face full of powder.

Monkey bar-swinging from one brain surgery to the next has saddled this lanky lad with a backpack full of trauma, and it’s a daily challenge to keep those shoulders back. But when that carefully calibrated balance is disrupted, and uncontrollable variables are added to the recipe, the already-crispy cookies in the oven tend to emerge blackened and burned.

If the personal side effects of this historic snapshot are nothing more than increased worry, discomfort, and agitation, I will consider myself incredibly lucky. Countless victims of this global tidal wave would gladly trade everything for a little increased anxiety.

Nervousness is temporary. Asphyxiation is not.

This is Chapter One. We are wading into dangerous waters, and we’re not even waist-deep. Stay vigilant. Stay clean. Stay supported.

Stay safe.

Adolescence Interrupted

The Power of Peaceful Thought

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Methods for quieting the chaos raging inside our heads are everywhere, but removing chemical deterrents to find some sense of tranquility through natural means is often seen as ineffective or less useful. It’s easy to slap the label of “hippie” on anything that feels unfamiliar because it happens to be rooted in something more than giant ad campaigns and pharmaceutical propaganda. But channeling the energy that’s pulsing through us is a path of least resistance that the overmedicated masses would be wise to try.

The noise and static are deafening, and the hyperactive state of modern society is no muzzle. To cut through that fog of interference, it takes discipline and focus. Steadying the breath and clearing the mind to lighten the heft of doubt, frustration, or anxiety from our shoulders is faster and far less toxic than diving into an artificial concoction of side effect-inducing sludge.

The untapped potential of the mind is a mystery we’ve been slow to unravel, but studies are showing how crucial thought can be on influencing biological assignments. From cancer treatments to regenerative tissue growth after injury, focused concentration can do wonders for the healing process. The brain is the motherboard controlling our mental and physical functions. We simply need to learn how to be better programmers.

There are certainly situations and circumstances when medication is a necessity. A meditative practice does have its limits, and a good friend of mine often comments that I believe “any malady can be cured with garlic, lemon, and sea salt.” But a move toward openness about the power of peaceful thought might slow the speed in which a doctor reaches for the prescription pad.

Adolescence Interrupted