Most of us walk through the world craving truth and validity, wearing masks to hide our intentions and insecurities. We post pictures capturing flashes of how we’d like to be perceived, and delete anything that might prove contradictory. We manufacture images built from aspirational notions, and hope no one notices the holes in our Swiss cheese.
It’s a high-wire routine, and many times we’re left swaying on a safety net—feeling anything but safe—and wondering how we fell. But, what if we removed the mirage and abandoned the ruse? What if we stopped filtering our words and screening our thoughts?
The consequences would be disastrous, right? How would we manipulate one another, gaining what we want by leaving a trail of unsuspecting victims in our path? How else could we construct perfect alibis and hide honest opinions inside of false compliments?
I’m not claiming this transition would succeed without bruises, and I don’t know if it’s even feasible in a technologically translucent society. But, beating the bedrock to expose a fallacious foundation may not be the worst use of our united efforts.
Games are fun, and they serve their purpose at birthday parties, baby showers, and wine-guzzling get-togethers. But, an existence safeguarding every word and action is a life spent toiling against the grain. Leave the fantasy on stage, and say what’s in your heart. It’s a dose of fresh air in a crammed elevator, and it feels fantastic.
Old habits die hard, but allowing even a modicum of legitimacy to creep into your vocalized notions will give the those tiny roots permission to sprout. Before long, we’ll all be standing atop a tree of transparency…or not.
5 thoughts on “The Beauty of Authenticity”
Right on, Blair. My daughter always reminds me, “Just tell ’em straight up.” Your alliteration is wonderful, by the way!
Thank you, Ellen. It feels like so much time and energy is wasted holding onto unnecessary thoughts and feelings. I believe they’re slowly destroying us. Thank you for reading and joining the conversation!
As always, you’ve hit the nail on the head.
I don’t know if you ever listen to or follow Krista Tippett’s program “On Being.” This was in a recent program and I thought it fits in with your blog as well. More from our Bertrand Russell series of photoquotes. This time commandment #8: “Find more pleasure in intelligent dissent than in passive agreement, for, if you value intelligence as you should, the former implies a deeper agreement than the latter.” Date: Fri, 11 Apr 2014 20:27:35 +0000 To: email@example.com
Thank you, Diane. I appreciate the feedback and support! No, Ellen, I haven’t followed Krista Tippett, but she sounds like a fellow introspective. That’s a fantastic quote. I’ll be sure to check her out.