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Furry Friends in the Holiday Mix

Amid the whirlwind of parties, travel, and traditions, it’s easy to overlook those who give us unconditional, year-round love.

Our animal roommates aren’t just cute (and often maniacal) additions to our homes. They aren’t pieces of furniture to be acquired, admired, and then eventually forgotten. They are as essential as electricity and should be valued and appreciated at that level.

This time of year can be chaotic. Loud gatherings, lights, music, and unfamiliar faces can overwhelm animals who thrive on dependable routines, and signs of stress like whining, panting, pacing, or hiding are common during the high-pressure holidays. Even small changes, like rearranging furniture or bringing in a tree (that certainly should have been left planted in nature), can trigger anxiety in these sensitive souls.

Animals crave consistency, so missed walks and irregular feeding times can lead to discomfort, behavioral issues, and even illness. Imagine how disorienting it must feel when your safe space suddenly becomes a bustling hub of strangers and noise during a human soiree that never got your stamp of approval.

Beyond a sense of mutual physical safety, consider the emotional bond we share with our tail-wagging sidekicks. As society becomes more fragmented—with declining fertility rates and shrinking family networks—animals increasingly fill the void of companionship. For those of us who have chosen to detach and withdraw from the population as a whole, the dependency on our four-legged friends is as vital as oxygen.

In moments heavy with memories that can amplify feelings of tension, discouragement, and isolation for many, our animal companions are anchors of tranquility and constant reminders of connection.

When the decorations come down and the guests go home, who will still be there, tail wagging? The furry friend who asks for nothing but gives you everything.

They deliver exponential joy, unwavering loyalty, and a true sense of purpose. This season, let’s return the favor.

Adolescence Interrupted

The Genuine Article

In a world of artificiality and pretense, there is a heavy value placed on authenticity. Pull back the curtain, peel off the filter, and slide down the mask. Let us see who you really are. Be brave enough to shine and showcase. We’ll all applaud your courage and welcome you into this incessantly judgmental society with wide open arms. No one will snicker or jeer, roll their eyes, or whisper a whiff of denigration. Climb into this giant velvety warm blanket of unconditional acceptance and approval. You’re finally safe. You’re finally home.

Then the alarm sounds and the dream ceases to exist.

It seems as though we want “realness” only when it settles comfortably into our preconceived concepts of conformity. When boundaries are blurred or the delineation between normal and abnormal gets a little fuzzy, we get antsy.

A degree of flexibility is needed to achieve cultural balance, and those muscles only get looser with the deep-stretch duo of time and education. It is a gradual, steady progression. Any significant historical change is measured in millennia not minutes.

The prescription is not to abandon the trek but to find more forgiving terrain. There is power in the plodding and nothing worth achieving is ever accomplished quickly or without pain.

So keep pushing, keep fighting, and keep exploring ways to solidify the concrete around your feet. Stay connected to the earth and remain grounded.

Keep it real.

Adolescence Interrupted