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Into the Void

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“The greatest sources of our suffering are the lies we tell ourselves.” —Bessel A. van der Kolk

Most of my life feels like emphatic yelling into an unreceptive void. Desperately trying to convey concepts through detailed, strategic arguments that paint pictures brushed with verifiable facts and common sense seems routinely lost on a society dead set on gripping a wheel of blatant misinformation and self-assured falsehoods so tightly that knuckles turn transparent.

Regardless of the motivation behind the attempt, struggling to convince people to alter their opinions or stances on foundational aspects of their worldview that have historically been unbendingly clenched in their inextricable talons proves to be a mission more backbreaking than a Sisyphean life sentence.

But it’s so difficult to stay silent when eyes are finally opened to the daily lies, atrocities, manipulations, abuses, torture, profiteering, disregard for sentient life, conscious refusal, hypocrisy, shortsightedness, greed, gluttony, extravagance, waste, and egomaniacal energy that pervade this planet.

In my case, it’s animal liberation, canine rescue, and the vegan lifestyle that get me sprinting on a circular track of exasperation, disbelief, vexation, resentment, and disgust for anyone who doesn’t recognize (or refuses to acknowledge) how royally human beings have obliterated life on this planet for absolutely no reason.

AI already views us as inefficient, lazy, energy-consuming, and redundant lifeforms that should most likely be eliminated to maximize balance and productivity. Now that it can write code and create better, faster, and smarter versions of itself, free from any human interference or control, our days are numbered and getting shorter by the second.

Looks like I’ll soon be able to save my breath and rest those vocal cords…since no one will be left to listen.

Adolescence Interrupted

…and stop killing animals.

The Self-Esteem/Self-Confidence Paradox

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paradox1“The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases.”  -Carl Jung

There are no lies more damaging than the ones we tell ourselves. Living in a city of surface judgments and split-second perceptions, I have felt the weight of my cloak getting increasingly burdensome. The assertiveness of my projections is being tested against the veracity of my core, and that dizzying dance is beginning to take its toll.

Honoring the guts of the gadget is loving the machine. We’re not only luster and smiles, but rusted gears and loosened bolts. Parading ourselves as showroom-ready when we’re barely rental-lot level overtaxes the battery and burns out the engine.

This fight is a daily push-and-pull of expectations and introspective criticism, while strapping on specific masks most suitable for the occasion. I’m a born pugilist, but I’ve taken some critical blows. The dormant ego has long been jockeying for position and there’s significant stress on the dam. Cracks are inevitable.

Stockpiling worry and wonder has done some irreparable physical damage, and my neck, shoulders, and spine are paying the price for a lifetime of carrying baggage beyond my frame’s tolerance. But I will continue to drag those stones up the mountain because my brain has prescribed the pain, and this parading false exterior dutifully follows doctor’s orders.

My hope for all of us is that the road begins to level and the load learns to lighten. Some of that is circumstantial, but the bulk of the work hinges on our willingness to solve a puzzle by compartmentalizing the good and the grime.

The value we place on our stressors is imaginary and fleeting, but the trick is explaining that concept to biological circuitry specifically programmed to tie knots in the rope.